I believe the best things in life happen when people show up together, and too often, that never happens because nobody wants to be the one holding the logistics. So that's what I do.
Stop being the one stuck planning. Family reunions. School reunions. Congregation trips. Yoga groups. Circles of friends who've been saying "we should all go somewhere" for years. Take a massage class together. Meditate in a Buddhist temple. Discover beaches you didn't know existed. Take a cooking class. Build memories with family members. Tell me who you're bringing, and I'll turn that idea into a trip that actually happens. You don't plan it, you don't chase it. You just show up.